Anonymous asked: I've recently started dating this guy. This nice, sweet, funny guy. Everything is going fantastic and yet I'm scared. I'm scared that he's just leading me on to screw me over like every other guy I've dated or had a "thing" with. I've felt myself try and find things wrong with him or reasons for me to just stop talking to him but I can't.I don't want things to end with him but I keep telling myself that "i'm bored with him" or something else but I'm not bored. I'm really happy. What should I do?

I think the reason you’re scared is because you actually have something worth staying committed too. You have someone who is willing to make you happy. Who is nice and funny and is obviously making you extremely happy. If you’ve ever been screwed over in the past, it’s understandable that you’re feeling this way. But you need to tell yourself not too. Sure, keep your walls up, but don’t automatically assume that every guy that wants to be with you is going to fuck you over and hurt you in the end. Not every guy is like that. A lot of girls need to understand that just because you’ve been hurt before, doesn’t mean it will happen again. Not all guys are the same, that’s for sure. I wouldn’t worry about anything until maybe you see signs that things are getting a bit rough between the two of you. Then I would stand back a bit and not necessarily expect anything bad, but be prepared to have your guard up in case something does happen. I’m sure everything will be fine. Honestly.