Anonymous asked: I always seem to be in the middle of my friends dramas. I find myself joining in the complaints they have of one another. I don't want to hear it anymore and they will be offended if i say that I don't want to hear it. I try saying it nicely but it never seems to work.

Welcome to my life. I am constantly in the middle of my friends drama/problems. The way I deal with it is simple. Tell them how you feel. Never be afraid to tell them that their situation and argument isn’t needed. If they get mad at you for not wanting to hear it nor be involved, then that is their own problem. A friend should never want you to involve yourself in something that doesn’t involve you. It’s unnecessary. Unless your name is brought up in the matter, it’s not your problem. Being there for your friends is one thing, but putting yourself into a problem that doesn’t concern you is another. Simply tell your friends you wish to not be involved because you don’t want to choose sides nor piss anyone off and lose a friend. There is nothing wrong with being the person who helps out constantly, but it’s wrong for them to expect you to always be involved.