Anonymous asked: I still love this guy.. but I'm moving on. If someone doesn't want me, what else can I do? its just hard talking to him because sometimes i wanna say things to him.. and so far after everytime we talk I breakdown for a bit...everyone tells me he's not worth it, but its hard to believe that. what should i do?

you don’t need a guy in your life to make you happy. i don’t know how many times i need to stress this to people. if you can’t make yourself happy, than no one or nothing will, ever. plain and simple. if people tell you he’s not worth it, don’t listen. you need to find things out on your own. it’s okay to breakdown. we all do it. you’re only human. but i want you to understand that having a guy in your life isn’t going to make you any happier than you are now. sure, it’s a nice adjustment to have someone to text and call, hang out with and go on dates and do nice things with. but is it a necessity? i don’t think it is. if talking to him still makes you upset, i would say to tone it down a bit. try and keep the conversations to a minimum for awhile until you feel you’re strong enough to talk without having a breakdown. i’m pretty sure you’re capable of doing so. i promise you. you’re strong. smile.